Listener Wrote - So an OLD FLING from like 15 years ago hit me up on Facebook recently. Everything was cordial and he was just reaching out and seeing how I was doing. No biggie. I'm married and he's got a girlfriend. But at the end of the message he threw out "I Should Have Taken The SHOT when I Had The Chance." That part threw me off a little. My bestie says he's fliting TODAY and I say it's more about WAY BACK when we were dating.????

HERE IS WHAT TEXAS HAD TO SAY ABOUT IT!

Ricky
Abort, abort! It's a trap I fell for in the past. Abort, disengage, block!

America
Where’s the rest of the history girl ‍♀️??!!
He could be saying it just to get under your skin “the toxicity” the audacity of him to make you feel insecure. And you’ve allowed him to do so it’s bothering you now especially if you’re married now.

Becky
He's trying to see if you're still interested. Plain and simple.

Vincent
She should go ask her HUSBAND what he thinks that guy is meaning shouldn't even show interest in his comments

Caröl
Why is this even a question if you’re married? It doesn’t matter what he meant by it. Just say LOL and move on

Enedine
He's testing out the waters. Don't reply or give him any kind of encouragement. Typical douche (& the term can go for either gender, BTW. In this instance it's a dude.) trynna step out on his girl cuz he thinks the grass is greener on the other side.

Julia
Don't do it!!!!!! Past is past!!!!
You will regret it, trust me!!!!

Michelle
He’s trying to see if you wanna little something on the side. He’s down and he sounds like a dog. You need to run, don’t walk, away!

Eddie
He is probably rich af now and your not

Christopher
Nah he tryna get up in them DMs and show you them naughty bits. He tryna throw the D.

Crystal
Leave the past behind and stay married

Brenda
Girl please! Why are you even talking to him? Your past is your past for a reason! NO BIG DEAL??? Go ask your husband if it’s “no big deal”…….. you should have never started talking to him in the first place. Your married and if the shoe was on the other foot & it was your husbands ex messaging him….. oh hell no, you would be pissed off and accusing him of cheating.
Girl get out of here with this bullsh*t.
YOUR ONLY ASKING BECAUSE YOU ARE TESTING THE WATER!
X’s are X’s for a reason!!!

Melissa
Stop "entertaining" him, that's just the enemy trying to see if you will take the bait, don't. A quick catch up is ok but carrying on the conversations for days or weeks spells trouble!

Joseph
Shouldn't even think about it, a thought becomes feeling and a feeling can turn into action. Don't throw a match into a haystack or else it'll catch fire ‍♂️
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Fabian
Lol. Girls always act like it’s ok to talk to past exes but let their husbands do the same thing and watch the excuses fly as to why that’s different.

Claudia
Why even entertain it if you are married???‍♀️‍♀️

Mark
Tell yo husband

Elia
gues i wasnt the only one blocked that one quick!

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