Ask Midland Odessa: My Husband Wants Me To Take His Last Name NOW After 5 Years!
Buzz Question: Been married for 5 years and when I got married I KEPT MY LAST NAME. My husband was very cool with it. Until NOW. All of a sudden he wants me to take his last name. When I asked him why now, he just says... he just wants me to have his last name now. Um, it's been 5 years and everything has been cool. Why now? I feel there is more to this but he won't tell me anymore on why he wants me to change it now. Thoughts?
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Maybe now after 5 years he feels closer to you than ever before. I would say it's a great thig that he wants you to have his last name. It's a sign of affection, not a bad thing.
Maybe he's ready to start a family with you and wants you to have his name before this happens. I would ask him about it.
I see no need to change it after 5 years. What's in a name?
Look, I did the same but after 2 years. I wasn't sure what I wanted to do with my name and my husband actually told me don't rush into it. Finally, after 2 years I decided that YES I did want to take his name and for me, it was the best decision I made. And, yes I do feel closer to him more than ever. I'm not telling you that you should, but I'm saying what worked for me.
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